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Her hens day, her hens night, the lot

Hens party ideas. You know her.
Let’s find her thing.

Life drawing or a spa day. Drag bingo or a cellar door. One of these is already making you think of her.

Park the twenty reels the group chat sent you.
This bit is just you and her.

Or start here

Just show me everythingEvery idea, top to bottom Start her wishlistAlready know what she wants? Put it straight in.

Every tap gets you closer to this

Wherever you start

Right now, your only job is her.

Everyone will have an opinion eventually. That part gets a lot easier once there’s a real plan to react to, instead of twenty ideas and a poll nobody finishes.

Creative hens party ideas

The Muse Club

For the bride who’ll find a new talent she absolutely does not need.

Heart anything that feels like her. Your shortlist waits at the bottom of the screen.

Life drawing sketches on a clipboard beside a glass of white wine

Life drawing

Bubbles and canapés around the easel and a model who takes his job very seriously.

The bride who’d laugh first and draw second.

Her night in Sydneybubbles on arrivallife drawingdinner by the waterbubbles at dinnera bonus cocktail for her

In all six cities

Life drawing hens parties
A laughing guest holding up her finished painting of four birds on a wire

Paint and sip

A canvas she’ll actually hang, or a cheeky one with a very distracting still life.

Strong opinions about colour palettes? Finally, a use for them.

Her night on the Gold Coastbubbles on arrivala private room and barpainting with an artist hosttapas dinnera bonus cocktail for her

In all six cities

Paint and sip hens parties
Two friends in aprons pulling faces and raising cocktails at a clay workshop

Pottery

Hands in the clay, bubbles within reach, and a little bowl she’ll keep long after the veil’s in a box.

The bride who’s been watching pottery videos at 1am.

Her night in Brisbaneclay with a hosta rooftop and a bottle of bubblyshare-plate dinnertwo bonus cocktails for her

How a pottery hens party works

Also in The Muse Club: terrarium workshops, candle making, jewellery and bead workshops, perfume making, cooking classes and mosaics. Or browse all our creative hens party workshops.

Hens party ideas for a slow, pampered day

Glow & Reset

For the bride who’d rather be horizontal.

Two friends in towel turbans, robes and sunglasses with drinks in hand

Spa day

Robes on, bubbles poured, a massage in some, and nobody asking her a single wedding question.

She’s been living on flat whites and seating charts.

Her day in Brisbanebubbles at the spaa massage or facialthe bathhousea rooftopItalian dinner

In Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane and Gold Coast

Spa and pamper hens parties
Two women laughing at a marble nail bar while one shows off her fresh nails

Nails, glam and pamper

A nail bar with a cocktail waiting in Melbourne, a full glam makeover before the night out, or a pamper weekend where the robes never really come off.

She’d like to walk into the night looking like she’s had a week off.

Her night in Melbournebubbles on arrivala deluxe manicurea surprise cocktail for hershare platesa VIP booth and the dance floor

In Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane and Gold Coast

Pamper hens parties

Also in Glow & Reset: massages, a bathhouse brunch in Brisbane, and high tea (it’s in Drinks and Dining, below). Want the whole day slow? Try these relaxed hens party ideas.

Behind the sequins

Anyone can book the class. This is everything around it.

One real night in Melbourne, from the door to the last drink.

  1. Cocktails in hand as they walk in.

    Not a queue at the bar while the class starts without you.

  2. A host, the clay and a private room.

    Two hours with the room to yourselves. The host runs the class; you get to be in it.

  3. Share plates on the table.

    Clay is hungry work.

  4. Then a rooftop, and a cocktail the bride didn’t order.

    Nobody had to ask.

Every package has its own version of this.

If you didn’t notice any of it on the night, perfect. You were busy.

Cheeky hens night ideas

A Little Mischief

Cheeky, without three people suddenly becoming very interested in their phones.

A drag queen in red sequins posing with a laughing group of hens

Drag queens

From drag trivia with the bride safely in the crowd to a private show with her front and centre.

The mixed group. She gets her moment without having to earn it.

Her night in Adelaidebubbles on arrivala private barher own drag queenpizzathe dance floor

In all six cities

Drag queen hens parties
A laughing bride to be in a veil and sash with a topless waiter

Topless waiters

A charming gent in a bow tie, at lunch, at dinner, behind the cocktail class bar or on the deck of a private cruise.

A long lunch where nobody gets up for a top-up.

Her night in Perthcocktails on arrivala topless waitercanapés and pizzatwo bonus cocktails for her

In all six cities

Topless waiter hens parties
A hens group posing with white feather fans at a burlesque class

Burlesque and pole

Feather fans and a shimmy, a twerk class, or a pole class where the bride discovers she’s suspiciously good at it. Then dinner, still in her showgirl era.

The bride who’ll try anything once, and twice if the song’s right.

Her night in Adelaidebubbles on arrivala pole classpizza and bubblesa bonus cocktail for herthe dance floor

Should you do burlesque at the hens?

How cheeky it gets is her call, and it isn’t one scale. Plenty of brides love a drag show and want no nudity at all.

Also cheeky: life drawing, cabaret shows, man-candy shows and toy parties.

Hens party activities with a winner

Game On

For the bride who has to win.

Keeping score back at the house as well? Here’s the hens party games list.

A drag queen in teal lace with a hens group in sequins beside a balloon garland

Drag bingo

Dabbers down, drinks up, and a queen calling the numbers like it’s a grand final. Some come with bottomless bubbles, which does wonders for everyone’s eyesight.

She’s still bringing up the 2019 trivia night.

Her night in Sydneybubbles on arrivaldrag bingograzing plattersa waterfront venuea bonus cocktail for her

In all six cities

Drag queen hens parties
Four friends cheering around a treasure chest in an escape room

Escape rooms

Crack the code, beat the clock, then argue about who actually solved it over dinner, rooftop cocktails or a VIP booth.

She’ll have the code before the host finishes the rules.

Her night in Brisbanean escape rooma rooftop and a bottle of bubblyshare-plate dinnera bonus cocktail for her

Also in Game On: scavenger and treasure hunts, axe throwing, barefoot bowls, mini golf and golf simulators, karaoke and a mechanical bull.

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Hens party ideas with a view

With a View

For the bride who wants somewhere worth the photo.

A hens group in pink on the deck of a boat at sunset

Cruises and boats

A private cruise with the whole group on deck, a long lunch on the water, or a drag queen on board. Sydney does it on a superyacht at sunset.

She’d trade the dance floor for a deck and a sunset.

Her day on the Gold Coasta private yachther own drag queentwo hours of drinksa glittering cocktail tower

In all six cities

Boat and cruise hens parties
Two friends sipping wine at a lookout over the vineyards at sunset

Winery tours

A private tour with the driving sorted, cellar doors and a grazing lunch, or a whole weekend among the vines.

Cellar door over a club, every time.

Her day in Pertha private tour of the Swan Valleythree wineries and a distillerytastingslunch

How to plan a hens winery tour

Also with a view: rooftop bars and waterfront dinners.

Hens party brunch, lunch and high tea ideas

Drinks and Dining

For the bride whose love language is a long table.

A tiered high tea stand with macarons, sandwiches and cakes beside teacups and flowers

High tea

Tiered stands and tiny sandwiches, or a cocktail high tea with a tarot reading on the side.

Something pretty, and everyone she loves at one table.

Her afternoon in Sydneybubbles on arrivalhigh teaa rooftopbubbly by the waterthree bonus cocktails for her

Hens in sashes and a tiara clinking glasses of bubbles across a marble table

Brunch

Bubbles on arrival and a brunch that turns into a power-ballad sing-along, a riverbank afternoon or a sky-high view.

The best parties start before noon. She’s been saying it for years.

Her day in Melbournebubbles on arrivalbrunchkaraoke in a private rooma bonus cocktail for her

Why a brunch or long lunch works

Also in Drinks and Dining: long lunches, cocktail making classes, tapas and tarot, and dinner and a show.

For the group, not just the bride

Hens party ideas for every kind of guest list

Planning chat already loud? Why the group chat ruins the plan, and what works instead

Not everyone’s drinking

They’re in, at the same price per person. Where drinks are part of a package they get a non-alcoholic alternative, and in a cocktail class they make the non-alcoholic versions. At pottery, nobody’s nursing a lemonade in the corner: the clay doesn’t care what’s in anyone’s glass.

Hens party ideas without alcoholFun activities that don’t need a drink

The bride’s pregnant

She’s in. Her glass gets the non-alcoholic version, the food can usually be adjusted around what she can’t eat, and anything built around making something, a long lunch or a pamper session means she isn’t sitting anything out.

Pregnant bride hens party ideas

Half of them have never met

Very normal. School friends, work friends, family and the partner’s side, all at one table. A cocktail class or a creative workshop gives everyone something to talk about while their hands are busy, and a drag queen does the same job from the front of the room.

Three generations on the guest list? All ages hens party ideas

She says she doesn’t want a fuss

Nothing that puts her on show, and fun the whole table shares: a long lunch, a paint and sip, an afternoon at the spa.

Low-key hens party ideasClassy hens party ideas

Real hens, in their words

They organised it. Then they got to enjoy it.

Our night flowed really well, no stuffing around and most importantly I got to actually enjoy my friends hens instead of playing event manager all night because everything had already been thought through. The timing, what was included, where we'd go next, what suited the 9 girls we had and honestly, I didn't properly realise how much difference that would make until the actual night itself. It felt like a proper event rather than us just meeting at a few places Han loved every part of it and even said how did you do and find all this?? So that was the review from her I needed and I would use them again in a heartbeat!

Jess Mitchelson-Hallwho organised her friend’s hens for nine, on Google

So I organised a hen party from London for my best friend in Australia and honestly didn't know how I was going to pull it off and so happy I found My Ultimate Hens. From start to finish everything exceeded expectations, thankyou for all the little surprises, how smoothly everything went and it all just worked and we had just the best time and honestly just soak it all in, which is pretty rare when you're the one organising. It ended up being one of the best nights ever and there's no way I could have done it from the other side of the world without you. I'm so grateful and honestly couldn't recommend you more.

Emily Stedmanwho organised her best friend’s hens from London, on Google

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Three friends in pyjamas in a bathtub full of balloons, champagne raised

Two days, one place for everyone

Hens weekend ideas, for when one night won’t cover it

Some of these deserve two days. Life drawing, a day spa, a cruise, high tea or the vineyards, with one place for everyone to come home to, where the robes, the snacks and the post-mortem all live.

Not fifteen girls, two bathrooms, bunk beds, and one exhausted organiser up at seven vacuuming and taking the bins out while everyone else sips bubbles on the balcony.

Every city has hens weekends with the stay built in, and everyone gets a bed of her own, or a rollaway. The only thing anyone’s fighting over is the aux cord.

Hens weekend packages

Asked a lot

Hens party questions, answered

What’s the best hens night activity?

The one that makes her look at you and say “how did you know?” Start with her, not the list: making something, being pampered, a bit of mischief, a game she has to win, a view, or a long table. Then pick her city. Every idea on this page comes as a complete My Ultimate Hens package in one or more of our six Australian cities, and each card shows which.

What is a My Ultimate Hens package?

A My Ultimate Hens package is one complete hens celebration, designed for a hens from the first glass to the last stop. The experiences, food and drinks, hosts and entertainment, and transport or accommodation where included, run as one flow, at one price per person.

How much does a hens party cost?

Most My Ultimate Hens day and night packages sit between about $130 and $350 per person, and weekends away with accommodation between about $250 and $550. The bigger the group, the lower it tends to go, and every package shows its own price per person. How much a hens party costs

How far ahead should we book?

More notice means more choice, particularly for accommodation, private spaces and Saturday times. A closer date is still worth asking about.

Do I need final numbers before I book?

No. When you book, you only need to be confident you’ll make the package minimum. Final numbers are due three weeks before the hens, unless your booking gives a different date.

What if some of us don’t drink?

They’re in, at the same price per person. Where drinks are part of a package, non-drinkers get a non-alcoholic alternative.

Can we choose how cheeky it gets?

Yes. How cheeky it gets is her call, and it isn’t one scale. Tell us what’s in and what’s out for her.

Where is she celebrating?

Knowing which one is her was always your call. The toast, the table and the next stop come with it.

Found the one? Pick her city and we’ll check her date.

A bride to be in a white dress and veil beside rose-gold balloons

Start her wishlist

Know exactly what she wants? Put it in. Only know what she’d hate and the one weird thing that’s so her? That works too. We’ll come back with the packages that fit her.

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