Established 2011
Two friends in white robes and towel turbans on a hotel bed, champagne being poured

HENS PARTY IDEAS + MY ULTIMATE HENS PACKAGES

VISION BOARD
STUDIO Her Melbourne hens wishlist

START her WISHLIST Bring your read on her. Play with ideas here, right now. No login required.

Rather talk it through? Call 1300 339 734 or send us what you have.

WHERE EVERY GREAT HENS BEGINS

You already know the best part. Her.

A hens is girlhood, all grown up: every one of her girls in one place, making an outrageous fuss of her.

Two friends in summer dresses sharing a pastry, one bite each, in a bright white room
A hens group in pink pyjamas and heart sunglasses together on a bed with balloons
Three friendship groups. One bed.
A bride in a veil and her friend in a pink feather boa dancing on a bed under rose gold BRIDE balloons

What you save gives us something to work with. We’ll use your favourites, along with your group and date, to find My Ultimate Hens packages that make sense for her.

Somewhere between your Notes app, Pinterest saves and the TikToks she’s sent you, a list is already taking shape.

  • Things she’d love.
  • Things she’d absolutely veto.
  • The little details only her people know.

The ones behind a bride saying, “HOW did you know?” and the girls saying, “OMG, you nailed it. This is SO her.”

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i.e like your own version of this:

  • Champagne girl. Not a shots girl.
  • Will dance anywhere after two margaritas.
  • Absolutely hates being embarrassed.
  • Would secretly love it if everyone dressed up.
A bride to be in a veil and white sunglasses blowing a kiss
the bride to be

Will say she doesn’t want a fuss.She absolutely wants a fuss.

  • Has a restaurant saved on her phone she has never once been to.
  • Her sister HAS to be there.
  • Three different friendship groups. She’ll want everyone together.
  • Talks about one wine region like it is a personality.
  • Screenshots everything. Books nothing.

We’ll come back with the actual deets you can drop into the group chat:

  • where it is,
  • what’s included,
  • what it costs and
  • what’s available for your group and date.

We can talk through the details with you.

Rooftop?

Can we see the menu?

Who’s actually booking this?

Everyone has a thought. She asked you because you know her.

From “thoughts girls?” to something they can actually say yes to

Six friends piled together on a cream couch, laughing and hugging in front of tall windows
Three friends laughing together at a bar at night, glasses raised

Love it, I am in!

Perfect, thanks for all of your hard work with this, she will love it!

I’ll be there, can’t wait x

A bride to be in a short veil laughing, eyes closed, as her friend hugs her at a night venue

THE BRIDE, AFTERWARDS

This girl is well and truely feeling so special.

Tamara StantonReviewed on Google5 out of 5the bride, about her own hens

A luxe hens installation of pink and gold balloons and florals with a cake on a white plinth

MY ULTIMATE HENS

Right.
Let’s get this party started.

You have done enough administration for one scroll.
Now we get to the good bit.

No spreadsheets.
No ranking eighty-seven ideas from best to worst.
No expectation that everything you save needs to make sense together.

Pick as many or as few as you like. Leave a whole section blank if none of it is her. You know her better than any list does, so do not overthink it. This is vibes, not a board meeting.

Send it when you are done and we come back with the packages that actually fit her, details and all, so you have something to put in the group chat, all on a personalised link.

A real human, not a bot. Real details. No paywall, no newsletter sign-up. We are too busy running hens for that!

We have all been in the Instagram funnel, excited about something and then made to jump through a thousand hoops. This is not that.

A few quick details, one click, and you hear from one of us at My Ultimate Hens with exact package details, dollars and cents.

Don’t overthink it. Don’t worry yet about what the bride’s second cousin on the invite list might think or need. This bit is just between you and all that you know about what the bride will love! Getting the whole group on board is our job.

You don’t need an answer for every option. Only tell us what you feel strongly about.

  1. Tap anything that sounds like her. It saves.

  2. Tap the star if it’s an absolute must.

  3. Not sure? Leave it blank. Anything she’d hate goes in her random stuff at the end.

Let’s go and find her hens.
Four friends in pink lying together on a bed, photographed from above
A hen in a floral dress laughing with a coupe glass in each hand beside a champagne tower and pink balloons
Three friends in heart-shaped sunglasses around a pink party table with a pastel cake and candles

WHAT FEELS
LIKE her?

…and gets the whole group chat saying yes.

KEEP GOING

Decorated hens biscuits in blue and white tile, lemons and Bride to Be icing
Two friends in pink sequins and white cowboy boots against a balloon and champagne backdrop
Sparkling wine being poured into a tower of coupe glasses with disco balls

WHAT LOOKS
LIKE her?

…and gives the girls something fun to dress for.
Clay earrings being shaped on a crafting table with a glass of sparkling
Pressing dried flowers into a candle at a hens candle making session
A bride to be in a veil and sash at an art and craft class

WHAT WOULD SHE
LOVE TO try?

…and one the girls will too.

“…we had a fantastic night at Kellies Hens night, with Mark your photographer and Feari your Burlesque instructor, It was so much fun every laughed and danced and had a ball.”

Kylie, Kellie’s bridesmaidSent to us Melbourne
Two hens in checkered crop tops and racing caps with Team Bride and Bride badges at the go-kart track
A hen laughing as she throws at the target at an axe throwing session
Barefoot bowls on an open green at sunset

HOW DOES SHE
LIKE TO play?

…because everyone knows her. Now they get to know each other.
Two friends in white robes, towel turbans and sunglasses relaxing together
Sparkling wine being poured into coupe glasses among friends in pink satin robes
Friends in white robes raising glasses as sparkling wine is poured

HOW DOES SHE
SWITCH off?

…and the girls get their own version of “Oh wow, I needed that.” too.
Individual grazing boxes with salads, pastries and edible flowers
A hand holding a coupe cocktail with a pink foam top at the bar
Two friends in sequin dresses holding orange cocktails with orange slices

WHAT WOULD
SHE order?

…because “omg look at this menu” might be the easiest yes in the group chat.
A hen laughing on the pole at a hens pole dancing class
A topless waiter at a My Ultimate Hens party
A hens life drawing table with sketches and drinks

HOW CHEEKY
IS she?

…her hens might be the excuse the girls have been waiting for.

“…Max, our topless waiter was silky smooth, had amazing manners, very accommodating, smelled nice, was funny, patient, professional, and 1,000/10 would bring home to meet the family.”

Kayla’s hensSent to us Melbourne
Three friends with drinks in a hotel room decorated with pink balloons and disco balls
A hens group in pyjamas with pink balloons
Three friends in white robes on the bed

IS SHE HAVING A
HENS weekend?

…the group chat’s going to need an overnight bag and a mimosa in the morning.

“…all of the girls said it was the best hens weekend they have ever been to which made me feel pretty great since it was mine :)”

Marni P., the brideSent to us Melbourne
Three friends laughing together with cocktails at a bar
A hens group celebrating in front of a purple stretch hummer at night
A hens group on a boat cruise

WHAT’S HER
kind of scene?

…the kind that turns “where are we going?” into “can’t wait.”
A drag performer in sequins and pearls singing into a microphone under pink light
A bride to be in a white hat spraying champagne on the dance floor
A bride to be in a white dress and veil beside rose gold balloons

WHAT MAKES
IT hers?

…and the moment everyone ends up filming.

WHAT’S VERY HER?

This is where we want the thing no generic hens list could possibly know.

  • The strange obsession.
  • The running joke.
  • The hobby nobody saw coming.
  • The drink she orders every single time.
  • The thing she has been talking about for three years.
  • Or the thing she would rather leave the country than do.
the weird hobby
the hard no
the exact drink

Her Vision Board

YOU KNOW HER. LET’S FIND THE HENS THAT FEELS LIKE HER.

The ideas you’ve picked come through with this!

An ultimate hens wishlist turns an idea into the “of course you thought of that” moment. The difference between this is so fun and stop, you did not.

What happens when you send it

Our hens-obsessed girlies at MUHQ will look at all of the deets, find packages that match, check availability and come back to you with all of the nitty gritty details – pics, menus, the $ and c, timings, personalised touches for her etc.

  1. A real person gets in touch

    We will always text you first, an actual human! One of us at MUHQ – not a bot. As you’d expect, that’s why we ask for your mobile number, so we can get back to you about the hens as you have asked us to!

  2. We talk about her

    When looking at ideas and the packages we can chat through any deets needed to narrow them down – what she’d love, what she’d hate, the mix of people coming and the date you have in mind. If something you picked won’t work together, we’ll tell you and we will let you know why and how to achieve the vibes you want!

  3. Your package, on a link ready to share

    We’ll walk you through the package we recommend on your own personalised hens link, with all of the deets included. That way you get to share it with the group so they see what they would be saying yes to before you decide to book anything. Tweaks and questions from there are normal – subject to availability of the package though as they do book every weekend and only one package is available per group per weekend – just a heads up! No point getting the girls excited about a package that is already fully booked out on your chosen weekend.

What you’ve already picked

+ Pick more

No picks yet? Tell us about her below.

A few quick details so we can take it from here

First name is fine.
We will always text first though!
We’ll text about your hens using the number you give us.
Not locked yet? Rough is fine.
‘About 15-ish’ is a completely legitimate answer.

Pop her name in, even just her first name.

YOU’RE HER…

Tick as many as apply.

WILL WHAT’S HAPPENING BE A SURPRISE FOR THE HEN?

Oops, you have to tick that you’re not a robot!

That didn’t send. Give it one more go.

Hmm, we couldn’t confirm that one went through. Give it one more go.

We’ll look at what fits, then come back with full package details and the nitty gritty and a personalised link that you can pop into the group chat.

FROM THE ORGANISERS

What they were worried about, and what happened

I AM NOT THE ORGANISED ONE

As a Type B girly turned maid of honour, My Ultimate made it SO easy being able to leave all the details in their hands!

Our group (and most importantly hen) had the most amazing night and I looked like the best planner ever

Rebekah RasmussenReviewed on Google5 out of 5

NOT MANY OF US DRINK

Josh who helped me find our package remembered I’d mentioned during my first chat that we weren’t sure if a drinks package would be good value for us because not many of us are big drinkers, and he agreed with me and found a package at a lower price point so I really appreciated that and felt really looked after.

Really overjoyed with the outcome and so was Rachel the bride and her very fussy mum as well.

JenniferReviewed on Google5 out of 5

I AM ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD

So I organised a hen party from London for my best friend in Australia and honestly didn’t know how I was going to pull it off and so happy I found My Ultimate Hens.

there’s no way I could have done it from the other side of the world without you.

Emily StedmanReviewed on Google5 out of 5

OUR DATE WAS GONE

When we found the package we wanted our original date actually booked out before we locked it in, because I was planning it with another two girls so we wanted to be sure, which honestly that did make things a little stressful at the time that we couldn’t get the date we wanted, but the team were really helpful in finding us the next available weekend.

It was absolutely worth the date shuffle.

Michelle DicksonReviewed on Google5 out of 5

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Nyree, founder of My Ultimate Hens, in her office
NyreeFOUNDERFemale Founded in 2011

“And we’ve been growing, evolving and hens-obsessed ever since. So much has changed over the years, but what has not changed is the essence of it all: the laughter, the sparkle, the connection, and that iconic moment to stop and celebrate the friendships that raise and define us.”

Nyree, Founder, to news.com.au, on My Ultimate Hens’ 15th anniversary

The people who read the clues

Founder-led from day one. Still hands-on. Still noticing the little things

Over 10,000+
Brides have been an Ultimate Hen
Easy Weddings 5-Star Supplier
awarded EVERY YEAR since 2012

NAMES ORGANISERS MENTION IN THEIR GOOGLE REVIEWSAlex · Nikita · James · Josh · Britt · Maddi

Our founder story

MELBOURNE HENS WISHLIST QUESTIONS

A hens party wishlist is not a booking. You save what feels like her, star anything that is an absolute must, add the one odd detail only you would know, and send it. It is free, nothing is held and nothing is charged. One of us at My Ultimate Hens reads it and comes back with the Melbourne packages that fit her, your group and your date.

GETTING STARTED

DO I NEED TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF HENS SHE WANTS BEFORE I START?+

No. You might know exactly what she wants. You might know only a couple of things she likes or dislikes. You might be starting from absolutely nothing. Browse first. The wishlist is designed to help you notice directions, not test whether you already have the answer.

AM I BUILDING MY OWN HENS PACKAGE?+

No. You are creating a wishlist. Save the hens party ideas, activities, vibes and details that feel relevant. We use those clues to narrow the My Ultimate Hens packages that fit her, your group and the date. You do not need to design the finished hens yourself.

WHAT IS THE VISION BOARD STUDIO?+

It is where the whole page actually lives. Every activity and detail you save from a category collects itself there in one place, so you can see the whole picture take shape as you go. You do not need to keep it open. It just fills in behind you.

DOES MY WISHLIST SAVE AS I GO?+

Yes, for as long as you are browsing. Move between categories, come back later in the same session, change your mind. Your picks stay put until you send them or clear them yourself. We do not ask for your name or any contact details until you are ready to send it.

WHAT’S ON THE WISHLIST

WHAT KIND OF HENS PARTY IDEAS ARE ON THE WISHLIST?+

A lot. Creative classes, cocktail making, food and drink, spa and wellness, games, adventure, boats, wineries, nightlife, drag entertainment, cheekier hens ideas, accommodation, transport and personalised extras. The point is not to decide what a hens is supposed to look like. It is to find out what hers could look like.

WHAT IF SOMETHING I WANT ISN’T ON THE LIST?+

Tell us anyway. WHAT’S VERY HER? is a free text spot built for exactly that: the odd detail, the running joke, the thing no generic hens list could possibly know. It counts as a clue, the same as anything you tap.

CAN I PICK THINGS THAT CONTRADICT EACH OTHER?+

Yes, and it happens constantly. She can be an absolute must for a big night out and an absolute must for staying in pyjamas until midday. Mark both. That contradiction tells us something real about her, not a mistake to fix.

WHAT IS A LITTLE MISCHIEF?+

The cheekier end of the wishlist. If that is not her at all, one tap at the top hides the whole section and tells us to keep her hens cheek-free. If it is, save and star things the same as anywhere else on the page.

YOUR GROUP

WHAT IF I SELECT HEAPS OF THINGS?+

Completely fine. We are not going to assume you want every single thing squeezed into one heroic twelve-hour itinerary. A bigger wishlist can simply give us a better picture of what you are drawn to.

WHAT IF I CHANGE MY MIND?+

Please do. That is what browsing is for. Something can look right until you see the thing that feels much more her. Nothing here locks you into anything.

WHAT IF THE GROUP IS STILL DECIDING?+

Also normal. Your wishlist can give you something more useful to take back to the group than another message saying: “Thoughts girls???” Once there is a clearer direction, it is much easier for people to respond to an actual idea.

HOW MANY OF US SHOULD FILL THIS IN?+

However many of you want to. Most wishlists are built by one organiser working from what she already knows, plus whatever the group chat has already said. There is no login and nothing to coordinate. Screenshot it, talk it through, come back and adjust.

CAN I CHANGE OR REMOVE SOMETHING I’VE ALREADY SAVED?+

Any time. Tap a saved idea again and it clears itself. Everything you have saved also shows in her picks on the bar at the bottom of your screen and on her vision board, just above the form, and the cross beside any pick removes it on the spot.

DOES THE BRIDE SEE THIS?+

No, not unless you show her. The wishlist is built for the organiser. Nothing here is shared or sent anywhere until you choose to send it to us.

PACKAGES, LOCATIONS AND SENDING IT

WHAT IF WE HAVE ALREADY BOOKED PART OF THE HENS?+

Tell us. Accommodation, dinner, the final venue, something the bride specifically asked for, whatever is already fixed. It is useful context when we work out which My Ultimate Hens packages make sense around it.

WHERE ARE MY ULTIMATE HENS PACKAGES AVAILABLE?+

This one is for Melbourne hens, so your wishlist reaches us already marked Melbourne. We also do Sydney, Brisbane, the Gold Coast, Perth and Adelaide. Want to browse first? Here are our Melbourne hens party ideas.

HOW MUCH DOES A HENS PACKAGE COST?+

It depends on her, your group and what you choose, so there is no single number to give you here. Once you send your wishlist, we come back with the packages that fit, and the cost sits alongside each one. Can’t wait? See every Melbourne package.

DO YOU OWN THE VENUES?+

No. We arrange access to venues, activities and suppliers across each city we work in, rather than owning them ourselves. That is part of how we can offer so many different kinds of hens in so many different places.

IS SENDING THE WISHLIST THE SAME AS BOOKING?+

No. Sending it starts a conversation, not a booking. Nothing is held and nothing is charged. You are free to send it and still decide against everything we come back with.

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER I SEND THE WISHLIST?+

Your wishlist comes through with your enquiry. We use it alongside the practical details you have given us to narrow the My Ultimate Hens packages that fit best. You do not have to explain everything again. You have already started.