Do not disturb: bride off duty
Robes on, bubbles poured, a treatment each, and not one person asking her about the seating chart.
We build the spa into her whole hens, robes to rooftop, in six cities around Australia.
She gets the first glass and the softest robe. You get the thank-yous in the group chat, with your name on them.
From a real bride, word for word
These lovely ladies organised me and my girls a great day at their lovely day spa, the girls can not stop talking about it! Thankyou ladies!
Tess B
That's the whole point of the day. One treatment, one round of bubbles, one long lunch, and her girls are still talking about it on the drive home. More real hens, in their own words
01 the short answer
The spa comes first, while everyone is fresh. The day just keeps going from there.
A hens spa day with My Ultimate Hens is a massage or facial each and a round of bubbles at the spa, built into a whole celebration of her: a rooftop, dinner and often a VIP booth after. The spa is where her day starts, not where it ends.
Robes and slippers on, phones away, and if anyone thought ahead, heart sunglasses on the bride.
A round of bubbles at the spa, and spa water with a slice of something for whoever would rather.
A massage, a facial or her pick of the two, anywhere from thirty minutes to a full, blissful hour.
On the bathhouse days, warm pools and steam rooms. On the others, the lounge, the robes and whatever is left in that glass.
Robes off, outfits on, and often a rooftop bar with a bottle of bubbly waiting on the table.
Waterfront dinners, tapas or long Italian tables, and on plenty of days a VIP booth to finish. Or a sweet high tea, if her night is an early one.
Thirty to sixty minutes on the table, a couple of golden hours on a rooftop, then dinner and as much of the night as she wants. Brunch-first crews flip it and finish in the robes.
02 her kind of spa
Same robes, very different days. Two taps and you will know which one is her.
Which spa is she?
Her idea of bliss
After the spa
The classic hens day spa, and what most of our spa days are built on. Robes, a round of bubbles at the spa and a massage or a facial each. Then out into the afternoon looking like you slept for a week.
The treatment menu in plain words: the whole crew on the table for massages, a full hour at some of our day spas, or a massage or facial each, so the bride who wants to glow for the photos and the friend who wants her shoulders sorted both get their way.
Bottomless brunch and a rooftop before the spa, or the spa first and a sweet high tea up high after. The daytime hens with no hangover in it, and the one mum and the aunties will thank you for.
Warm pools, steam and sauna instead of a treatment room, with the whole crew floating in one place. Our Brisbane spa days already include a bathhouse with a cocktail bar inside. Hot springs are on request in her city.
A room set up for your crew, a glass of bubbly waiting, and a manicure or pedicure each with a neck and shoulder massage while the chat flows. Then shared plates and a rooftop. Want the therapists at your accommodation instead? That is on request in her city, and pyjamas are encouraged.
A sixty minute manicure each with a glass of bubbly, or a full makeover with lashes, then out to a VIP booth looking exactly as good as she feels. For the bride who wants the photos to show it.
Spa, sleep, repeat. On request in her city, or start with our hens weekend packages and tell us she wants the spa in it.
A long, slow scalp massage and wash, the treatment the internet cannot stop booking. On request in her city, for the crew that wants the newest one first.
A slow class the morning after, or a sound bath before the big night. On request in her city: stretch it out the morning after, or float into the big night.
I just wanted to say my MoH organised my hens party in Sydney for me through My Ultimate Hens over the weekend and it was nothing short of amazing. From being picked up in a limo from our fancy hotel, taken on a harbour cruise, topless waiters, magical sunset views, I truely could not have asked for a better party. This wasn't even the end of it. On Sunday we then had a delicious breakfast down by the harbour followed by relaxing massages and facials. This girl is well and truely feeling so special. Thank you more than ever to the my ultimate team, will be recommending your team to all my friends and family. xx
03 her people
The bride who would rather be horizontal, and everyone she wants lying next to her.
Months of invoices, swatches and seating charts. One day where the only decision is massage or facial, and someone else books the table after.
A spa day is the hens nobody has to be talked into. Robes are the great leveller, and the cheekier part of the day can wait until after dinner, or not happen at all.
Spa water, a facial and a long lunch need no explaining. The bubbles are there for whoever wants them and a proper glass of something pink for whoever does not.
A spa day is one of the loveliest ways to spoil a pregnant bride: feet up, robe on, and a treatment chosen with the bump in mind. Tell us she is expecting and the whole day gets built around her. For more, see our hens party ideas for a pregnant bride.
Molly is amazing!! I had so many questions, needed to work into budgets and potential pregnant guests. Molly gave me a tonne of options, responded to my emails quickly and made the whole journey of planning a hen's weekend a breeze! Highly recommend to anyone wanting a destination hens weekend
Chloe G., organiser, Easy Weddings
School friends, work friends, the cousins. Nobody needs small talk with a face mask on, and by the time the robes come off the group chat has merged itself.
It works a treat either way. A small crew gets long chats between treatments; a big crew fills the lounge with robes and noise. If she would rather stay in, a hens pamper party brings it all to you.
04 the group chat asks
The things the group chat asks at 9pm, answered before anyone types them.
Yes. Every one of our spa days has a treatment each built in, so nobody watches from the lounge: a massage, a facial, or her pick of the two.
Both are lovely. At plenty of our spas each of you picks a massage or a facial; at others the whole crew has a massage together. You'll know which before anyone packs a robe.
Spa first. Everyone arrives fresh, the bubbles at the spa start the day gently, and nobody wants a massage after the third cocktail. Brunch-first days flip it and finish in the robes.
Yes. A round of bubbles at the spa comes with every one of our spa days, and our Brisbane bathhouse days have a cocktail bar inside the spa. Brunch, lunch or dinner sits either side, so nobody eats in a robe.
On the bathhouse and spa-deck days, the pools, steam room and lounge are yours before and after your treatment, so whoever is waiting is soaking, glass in hand. On the others, it is the lounge, the robes and the group chat merging itself. What to pack is in what to wear.
05 the numbers
One price per person for the whole day, so nobody is splitting a bill at the spa desk.
Our spa day hens packages usually sit around $200 to $350 per person. And they're built as the whole celebration: the spa, the rooftop, dinner and the night, or a slow afternoon that ends at high tea. The package is the magic. The spa is just where it starts.
06 at a glance
The screenshot for the group chat.
07 the proof
In their words, typos and all, with their own photos or none.
Hi Molly
I just wanted to say a big thank you for all your hard work in helping to arrange Sarah’s Hens Day. The day was perfect and the My Ultimate Hens ladies at your day spa did an incredible job and were so accommodating. The bride had a fantastic time and we all left relaxed and happy. To top it off she had a beautiful wedding last weekend and looked amazing. We will absolutely recommend your services.
Kind Regards
Malina
I just wanted to say thank you so much for organising an AMAZING HENS PARTY for us over the weekend! Everything was perfect and it exceeded my expectation! The hen, Bea, thought everything was incredible and enjoyed herself thoroughly! Also, thank you for putting up with me through this organisation! I greatly appreciated your support and professionalism through this whole process! I have some more Hens Parties coming up, so I will definitely be recommending your company and everything you provide. Thank you so so much!!!
We booked the Pamper and Dine Weekend and it was amazing!! Tash was so lovely to work with and everything was perfect both in the planning and on the hens weekend itself. Thankyou from an Extremely Happy Bride and Maid of Honour!!
Hey girls! Just sharing some photos from a wild hens party, that you lovely ladies help us put together. We had such a blast and your pamper ladies that came to do our makeup , manicure & pedicures and massages were absolutely wonderful and so professional. I took a million photos from that night but I thought I share a few snaps to show everyone having a good time. Once again truly grateful for everything! Thank you
Nicole :)
Fifteen years of hens, a spa day in four cities, and the same people answering your questions from the first message to the last glass.
Sydney's first Hen-Tathlon, with 2Day FM
The Jimmy & Nath Show with Emma crashed five My Ultimate Hens parties across Sydney in one day
And we've been growing, evolving and hens-obsessed ever since
So much has changed over the years, but what has not changed is the essence of it all: the laughter, the sparkle, the connection, and that iconic moment to stop and celebrate the friendships that raise and define us.
Nyree FOUNDER to news.com.au on My Ultimate's 15th anniversary
08 make it hers
Her name on the door, her out-of-office in the group chat, and one rule that matters. Free from us, not part of any package.
Please
Do not disturb
The brideis off duty
Wedding questions resume after lunch
Every time someone says one of these, tap it. Whoever said it pours the next round, bubbles or spa water.
Rounds owed so far: 0. A very good start.
The bride is exempt. Obviously.
09 send the invite
Four invites in our own spa designs (one with her photo in the frame), filled in your way, and eight hens party games, each in a girls gone mild and a spicy edition.
Free extras from us, in our own designs. Not part of any package.
Her photo, framed · tap a look
Her photo stays on your phone. It never leaves this page.
Tap to add a line, then make it yours
Print one per guest or play them off a phone over the platters. Every game comes girls gone mild or spicy. Flip the card to the one that suits her crew; you know them best.
The icebreaker for a crew who half know each other. Hunt down a guest for every square and get her name in it. Mild: who has seen the bride ugly cry. Spicy: who dated someone the bride warned her about.
Girls gone mild
Spicy
Girl talk with a pen. Pick a square, answer it, pass it on. The mild card is first impressions and lazy Sundays. The spicy one is worst first dates: spill it or sip.
Girls gone mild
Spicy
Five questions only her people can answer. Everyone writes, the bride marks, the winner picks the next round. Her coffee order on the mild card, her first kiss on the spicy one.
Girls gone mild
Spicy
One card each, filled in over the platters and handed over sealed. She keeps them all. Mild is marriage advice and date nights; spicy is what to pack for the honeymoon.
Girls gone mild
Spicy
Point, vote, write her name in. Who goes home in the robe, who falls asleep mid-facial. The spicy card asks who overshares to her massage therapist.
Girls gone mild
Spicy
Five this-or-thats about the bride. Everyone writes her answer, she reveals the truth. Massage or facial on the mild card; skinny dip or karaoke sober on the spicy one.
Girls gone mild
Spicy
Twelve little dares to tick off between treatments. Mild: swap sunnies with the bride, start a slow clap. Spicy: a body roll in your robe, read your last sent text out loud.
Girls gone mild
Spicy
Everyone finishes five lines about the bride, folds the card and drops it in. She reads them out and guesses who wrote each one. Bring tissues for the mild card and a straight face for the spicy one.
Girls gone mild
Spicy
10 the dress code
The only hens dress code with a belt and no buttons. The outfits come out later.
Dress code for the bride's spa day: matching robes and slippers, heart sunglasses on, the bride in white, everyone else in blush. Swimmers underneath, the night's outfit in your bag.
Most day spas hand out the robe and the towels. The rest is on you.
11 the photos
Eight shots for the camera roll, before the phones go back in the bag.
Off duty. Do not disturb.
Wedding planning? Never heard of her.
The only seating chart today is a row of daybeds.
Robes on, bubbles poured, RSVPs ignored.
Soaking it all in before the I do.
Horizontal is a personality today.
Spa by day, sparkle by night.
Glowing, and not just from the facial.
12 the whole day
Robes off, outfits on. There's no one way to build it: here are four of the most-loved ways our crews have done it, and her city's packages have plenty more combinations.
Why it runs this way: massages first, while everyone is fresh. Nobody wants a massage after the third cocktail.
Why it runs this way: the pools do the warm-up, so by the booth nobody needs convincing.
Why it runs this way: for the crew that wants the fun in the daylight and the robes as the finale.
Why it runs this way: for mum, the aunties and the bride whose wild is a second glass in the spa.
Favourites from our crews. See the packages in her city.
Plenty of crews book a massage themselves and have a lovely time. A My Ultimate Hens spa day puts the whole celebration in one place: the spa, the bubbles, the rooftop table, dinner and the little surprises for the bride, lined up in an order that works, because we've been building hens since 2011 and we know what makes a day land.
14 her city
Six cities. Pick hers.
Not sure which city yet? Send the idea to the girls first.
15 asked a lot
Everything the group chat will ask, in the order they will ask it.
A hens spa day is a hens party built around a spa: a massage or facial each at a day spa or bathhouse, a round of bubbles at the spa, then the rest of the day together. With My Ultimate Hens that usually means a rooftop bar, dinner and, on plenty of days, a VIP booth, all booked as one day.
No, they're close cousins. A hens spa day goes out to a day spa for a treatment each and then into the rest of the day; a hens pamper party brings manicures, massages and bubbles to a room set up for your crew, or therapists to your accommodation on request (how it works). Overseas the spa version is often called a bachelorette spa day.
The treatments run thirty to sixty minutes, and how long the celebration goes is up to you. Our packages cater for every kind of hens, from a slow afternoon that ends at high tea to the spa, a rooftop, dinner and a VIP booth.
No. At plenty of our spas each of you picks a massage or a facial, and at others the whole crew has a massage together. You'll know which before anyone packs a robe.
Yes, absolutely. Tell us she's expecting and we'll build her day around her, from a treatment chosen with the bump in mind to pregnancy-friendly food, and the rooftop and the high tea work for everyone.
Yes. A spa day is the hens nobody has to be talked into. Robes suit every age, the treatments need no explaining, and for non-drinkers we can always organise a non-alcoholic alternative. Pick a high tea or a long lunch after the spa if her crowd prefers an early night.
Yes. A round of bubbles at the spa comes with every one of our spa days, and our Brisbane bathhouse days have a cocktail bar inside the spa. Brunch, lunch or dinner sits either side, so nobody eats in a robe.
Swimmers if there are pools or steam rooms, a hair tie, slides, something loose to change into after the treatment, and the night's outfit in its own bag. The robe is usually the spa's. More in what to wear.
Yes, on request in her city: therapists and makeup can come to your accommodation. Or pick one of our pamper days, with manicures, massages and bubbles and the rest of the day after. See hens pamper parties.
Yes. A bathhouse swaps the treatment room for warm pools, steam and sauna; our Brisbane spa days already include one, with a massage or facial each. Hot springs make it a day trip and are on request in her city.
Six of you or thirty, a hens spa day works a treat. Tell us how many are coming when you tell us about her, and we'll find the spa day that suits your crew.
Hens spa days run in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane and the Gold Coast, from classic day spas to bathhouse days and spa days with brunch or high tea. In Perth and Adelaide, a spa day is on request: tell us her date and how many are coming.
Usually a rooftop bar with a bottle of bubbly, then dinner by the water, tapas or a long Italian table, and on plenty of days a VIP booth. Or high tea up high, if her day ends early. See the whole day.
Bathhouses and hot springs. Searches for bathhouses have grown about three and a half times over five years while day spa searches have dipped (Google Trends, Australia), and hens now search for bathhouse days by name. The Japanese head spa is the newest treatment people want, and for staying in there is the hens pamper party.
Our spa day hens packages usually sit around $200 to $350 per person. Every package is the whole celebration, not just the spa. Pick her city to see them.
Booking questions? They're all in our hens party FAQs.
Keep the robes for the morning and add something with a bit more noise, or go the other way entirely.
She gets a day where nobody asks her anything. You get to lie on the next daybed, glass in hand, and take the credit.
Pick her city and see every way it can run.
Or tell us about her16 her shortlist
Give us the basics and we will come back with the spa days that suit her, her city and her crew.
Done. Robes on standby.
Keep an eye on your phone, the first text comes from one of us, not a bot.
While you wait: make her invite