At a long lunch or brunch
The long table, the bubbles, the afternoon that refuses to end. Nobody gets up for a top-up all afternoon, which is exactly how a lunch quietly turns into a night.
Table service for the bride
Hens party topless waiters, bow tie on and shirt off
She looks at him. Then at you. You've been waiting all afternoon for that look.
Our own handpicked waiters, trained in full for hens and RSA certified, serve the drinks, host the games and join the photos, in six cities.
She gets the first glass and the cheekiest photo. You get the thank-yous in the group chat, with your name on them.
Find a topless waiter hens package that feels like her. Pick her city.
Or tell us about herRather talk it through? Call 1300 339 734
at a glance
Her favourite girls. One very charming host. Plenty to talk about tomorrow.
- Serves the drinks, hosts the hens games, joins the photos
- Bow tie and cuffs on. A very relaxed shirt policy.
- Lunch, dinner, a cruise or the weekend, for as long as you want him
- Six of you or thirty, it works a treat, in six cities
From the bride herself, word for word
I just wanted to say my MoH organised my hens party in Sydney for me through My Ultimate Hens over the weekend and it was nothing short of amazing. From being picked up in a limo from our fancy hotel, taken on a harbour cruise, topless waiters, magical sunset views, I truely could not have asked for a better party. This wasn't even the end of it. On Sunday we then had a delicious breakfast down by the harbour followed by relaxing massages and facials. This girl is well and truely feeling so special. Thank you more than ever to the my ultimate team, will be recommending your team to all my friends and family. xx
She's been one of the girls at everyone else's hens. This time she's the one in the veil, and our waiter hands her the first glass. More real hens, in their own words
01 service begins
What your hens party topless waiter does
Six moments, one bow tie, and a seat beside her with your name on it.
A hens party topless waiter with My Ultimate Hens is one of our own handpicked, trained waiters in a bow tie and not much else up top. He joins your group to welcome the bride, serve the drinks, host your hens games and join the photos, while she enjoys being thoroughly fussed over as part of her whole celebration.
01 The first hello
The door opens and he says hello
Her best friend suddenly becomes very interested in the bride's face. He meets the girls, offers the bride her first glass and asks who knows her best. Apparently, everyone does.
What he does Introduces himself, meets the bride and gets the first conversation going.
02 The first game
The game everyone has an opinion on
He reads the first question. The bride answers with complete confidence. Her sister would like to lodge an objection, and her best friend has evidence.
What he does Hosts your hens games: explains the round, reads the answers, keeps the scores very seriously.
03 The service
A drink arrives mid-story
You're halfway through telling the story when he offers another drink. You get to finish it. The toast happens with a glass already in every hand.
What he does Serves the drinks and the food in your package, so the organiser stays in the conversation.
04 Her moments
He knows the beat
A playful exchange, a game answer that sends her straight into laughter, then her best friend stands up for a toast. He knows when to start the next round and when to let her finish the story.
What he does Keeps the spotlight on the bride, and steps back when the moment is theirs.
05 The photos
The photo with her favourite people
The bride in the middle, her girls around her, him in the shot. The first photo is everyone smiling. The second catches the bride laughing at something her sister said. That's the one.
What he does Jumps in the group shot, or takes the phone so the organiser is in it too.
06 Tomorrow
The story that follows you to dinner
Dinner has arrived and someone is still disputing the quiz result. The bride would like it reviewed. The group chat will be hearing about this for weeks.
What he does Fits into her celebration exactly where you planned him, alongside the venue and the rest of your package.
Hi Heather, I would like to thank you very much for a wonderful night we had last night! Our tarot lady was so lovely, the topless waiter Dean was great on the eye but also included all the ladies in every way possible by entertaining them to getting them drinks and food, what an awesome guy. I would recommend your package to anyone who is looking for a awesome night. Thank you again, Melissa F
02 the staff room
Our topless waiters, handpicked and trained for hens
Chosen for personality as well as looks. Trained for hens hosting.
Our My Ultimate Hens topless waiters are our own crew, handpicked and trained in full for hens celebrations, with the welcome, the games, the service and the bride's moments all part of the job. Every one of them is RSA certified.
What the training looks like on the night
- Welcoming a hens group
- He introduces himself, meets the bride and gets the first conversation going.
- Hosting the games
- He explains the next round, reads the answers and gives the bride time to react.
- Reading the table
- He welcomes an answer from the quieter friend without putting her on the spot.
- Keeping her central
- Every game comes back to her friendships, her stories and her love story.
- Knowing when to step back
- Her best friend starts a toast, and he gives them the moment.
- Service
- Drinks reach the table while the organiser stays in the conversation.
- Photos
- He jumps in the group shot, has a laugh and makes it one worth keeping.
- Good manners, all night
- He respects what the bride is comfortable with and sticks to the plan you've made.
He knows when to start the next game and when to let her best friend finish the story.
Thank you again for all of your assistance across Friday & Saturday, we are truly grateful. Thank you to the My Ultimate Hens (MUH) team for making the impossible happen. Our guests weren't sure we could even proceed until 12-hours before the event due to natural disasters, but the team were friendly, reassuring and pulled out every stop to keep us informed and calm while they sorted out the package. The MUH packages are financially viable, packed full of fun and have so many options that it was hard to pick one! Thank you to the team, especially to Chloe & Sarah for going above and beyond. Max, our topless waiter was silky smooth, had amazing manners, very accommodating, smelled nice, was funny, patient, professional, and 1,000/10 would bring home to meet the family. We loved him participating in the group games and for making our group feel special.
03 the games
He has the questions. Her friends have the stories.
Excellent company. Highly disputed quiz results.
Your My Ultimate Hens topless waiter hosts your hens games: he explains the round, reads out the answers, keeps the scores with great seriousness and gives the bride every chance to defend herself. The best games are about her, so the stories at the table belong to your girls.
01
Who knows her best?
Her sister is confident. Her best friend has evidence.
Before the day A few questions about her, and her answers.
02
Her partner said what?
He reads out her partner's answer. She would like a right of reply.
Before the day Her partner's answers, collected quietly beforehand.
03
Guess the memory
She recognises the story before he's finished reading it. Now the whole table wants the rest.
Before the day A memory from each of the girls, one they're happy to share.
04
Finish the sentence
The girls predict her answer, with increasingly confident explanations.
Before the day A few light, affectionate prompts about her.
05
The fashion challenge
Each team gives a very serious explanation of a very unserious creation. One Brisbane crew put him in a toilet paper gown.
Before the day Props, a bit of space and a waiter who's a good sport.
Try one on her
Who knows her best?
What's her coffee order?
Now guess her answer. Then guess who at your table will argue with it.
Playing along is everyone's own call. Laughing along counts. Points, applause and bragging rights do the rest. More rounds he can run are in our topless waiter games list.
We all had the best time!! The topless waiter was amazing and really easy going, played lots of funny and naughty games with us. We all got our make up done and felt/looked amazing!! The cruise was beautiful and to top it off the limo ride home was flowing with bubbly, laughs and music. Thanks for helping make such and enjoyable weekend for the bride to be possible and easy.
- Dannielle
And you?
You get to play, too.
He explains the next round. You take your place beside your best friend. When the answers come out, you're finding out with everyone else.
He hosts the games and looks after the drinks for his whole time with you, so the seat beside the bride is yours.
04 today's specials
Ways to have a topless waiter at the hens
Eight places he turns up. One of them sounds exactly like her.
At dinner
From the welcome bubbles to dessert. He's on the pour, on the games between courses, and standing by with a full glass the second someone taps theirs for a speech.
Behind the bar at your cocktail class
The class teaches the shake. He's behind the bar handing out the results with a garnish and a wink, so every finished cocktail arrives like it was made for the bride. More on cocktail making hens parties.
On the deck of a hens cruise
Her girls together on the water, a tray of bubbles that's back before your glass is empty, and room for a game between the sunset photos. Easily the best-dressed man on the boat, depending on how much you count a bow tie. More on hens party cruises.
In your private room
Your own room, the drinks flowing and the games on, with no next table watching. The loudest round of the night gets to be as loud as it likes.
In your VIP booth on the night out
Velvet booth, lovely outfits, a bottle on the table and a very cheeky addition to it, just as the bride thought she knew the plan. Dance floor in front, refills behind, the bride in the middle of both.
At the apartment on a hens weekend
Her inner circle, a surprise at the door and the whole crew gathered round in our Bach Pad, the one apartment everyone piles into. Topless butler, anyone? He turns it into the first venue of the night, and the bar comes with its own bartender. More on hens weekend packages.
The opening act at life drawing
He starts the night as her waiter, pouring and charming. Then the pencils come out and he's the model. The plot twist the bride never sees coming. More on life drawing hens parties.
05 the cheek meter
How cheeky does it get?
Cheeky enough for the bride, charming enough for her mum.
Good manners. Cheeky company. Bow tie and cuffs on, shirt left at home, flirty, funny and all in for the games and the photos.
Some girls have an answer for everything. Some are enjoying the commentary. Your waiter makes room for both: he invites the next answer, enjoys a bit of banter and gives the bride the floor whenever she has something to add. Playing along is everyone's own call. Laughing along counts.
Gentle banter, enthusiastic games or a bigger surprise? Tell your package consultant about the bride and who's coming with her, including the kind of cheeky she loves, and we'll match the night to her.
A strip show is its own booking, for the bride who wants the heat turned right up once he's poured the bubbles: add one of our strip show hens parties.
On the night
- Bow tie and cuffsOn, until the bride steals them
- ShirtLeft at home
- FlirtingThe charming kind, all night
- Hens gamesHosts them, plays them, loses on purpose
- PhotosThe group shot, the silly one, the cheekiest for her
- A strip showIts own booking, if she wants one
Hi My Ultimate Hens girls, I just wanted to say thank you, the cruise was a huge success! Felicia and Heidi who were on board were so lovely and friendly along with Jam our topless waiter. He was absolutely fantastic and very respectful and kind to everyone. Prior we had people with hesitations because of the price PP but I can assure you that you get what you pay for and that everyone had a wonderful experience!!!! Thank you for having wonderful staff as they really all added to what was a memorable night.
Rhabeka B x
06 table for
Who a hens party topless waiter suits
Four tables he's made for. One of them is hers.
A hens party topless waiter suits a mixed group with the bride's mum in it, a crew that half knows each other, a bride who wants a cheeky, giggly night, and an organiser who wants to enjoy the party too.
How does she find out?
One very good surprise. A room full of very bad secret-keepers. Her best friend has been watching the door all afternoon.
Gentle banter, big games or the full surprise: the right amount of cheek is part of making it hers.
Table 1
The mixed table
The bride's mum, the cousins, the work friends, the school friends. He's charming before he's cheeky, so mum gets a laugh and a photo, the cousins get a story and everybody ends up in the group shot.
Table 2
The crew that half knows each other
Three friendship groups and one bride in common. Her school friend has the old stories, her work friend has the recent ones, and one game in, the whole table wants both.
Table 3
The bride who wants a little cheek
She wants to blush, giggle and get the best photo of the night. All the flirt, all the fun. Want the full show too? Add one of our strip show hens parties.
Table 4
The organiser who wants to enjoy the party too
He has the questions. You have a place in the game and a seat beside her, with a glass he's already filled.
Hi Heather,
I wanted to provide some feedback from Stephies hens on the weekend just gone and say a huge thanks to everyone involved - she loved it from start to finish and you made it all so perfect! Your burlesque dancer Crystal she was unreal and made us all feel very femme fierce and strutting our stuff! Thankyou also for making sure she included the songs I sent you because as we talked about in the lead up these are our hens favourite songs and it made it even more special to have them as part of the night.
Now onto the topless waiter, well he was dishy as promised and even Stephs mum was getting in on the action and stealing him from everyone else for photos which was so funny! He couldn't do enough for us and yes as you can see from the photos we even dressed him up in a toilet paper gown and he was such a good sport helping and making us all laugh, it was exactly what we needed on such a fun night and exactly the sort of attitude i had hoped for.
Everything ran perfectly and i just wanted to say thankyou again i honestly couldn't have done it without your help and i cant wait to work with you again when i get engaged!
Debbie T
07 the bill
What a hens party topless waiter costs
One price per person, with her whole night on it.
Our topless waiter comes as part of a My Ultimate Hens package, and the package is the magic: him, the venue, the food and the drinks, built as her whole celebration, from a long lunch to a big night out or the full weekend.
What it comes to depends on the package you pick and how long you want him there, so every package in her city shows its own price per person.
Want to see the packages? Pick her city.
For the group chat
Topless waiter for her hens? He comes as part of a package with the venue, the food and the drinks, one price per person. Her city's page has the prices.
08 the docket
Hens party topless waiters with My Ultimate Hens, at a glance
Everything above, on one slip of paper.
- What it is
- The quickest way to make the bride feel like the guest of honour and get the whole table laughing, from her mum to the friend who knows nobody. A hens party topless waiter (a hens night topless waiter, a hen do topless waiter or, to some, a topless butler) with My Ultimate Hens is our own waiter, hired and trained in full by us and RSA certified, who hosts the bride and her crew and runs the hens games.
- What he does
- Welcomes the bride and her girls, serves the drinks and the food in your package, hosts your hens games and joins the photos, while the bride enjoys being thoroughly fussed over.
- Games he hosts
- Who knows her best, her partner said what, guess the memory, finish the sentence and a fashion challenge or two. For the personal ones, gather a few questions, her partner's answers and the girls' memories before the day.
- What he wears
- A bow tie and cuffs, with the shirt left at home, and a grin that does the rest.
- And a strip show?
- A strip show is its own booking. Add one of our strip show hens parties if she wants the heat turned right up.
- Where he turns up
- A long lunch or brunch, dinner, behind the bar at a cocktail class, on a cruise, in a private room, in a VIP booth, at our Bach Pad on a hens weekend, or as the opening act at life drawing.
- Who it suits
- Mixed groups with the bride's mum, crews who half know each other, a bride who wants a cheeky, giggly night, and an organiser who wants to enjoy the party too.
- Cities
- Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane, the Gold Coast, Perth and Adelaide.
- Price
- Per person, as part of a hens package with the venue, the food and the drinks. It depends on the package and how long you want him there, so every package in her city shows its own price.
- How long he stays
- As long as you want him, from the welcome bubbles to the whole party.
- Group size
- Six of you or thirty, it works a treat.
- Booking
- Secure it with just your own share, with the second part following a few days later. The rest is in our hens party FAQs.
- What happens next
- Open her city's hens page to see what's on there, or tell us about her and a package consultant comes back with what suits.
- Who we are
- My Ultimate Hens, female founded in 2011 and helping hens celebrate in six Australian cities ever since. 4.7 on Google, 5.0 on Easy Weddings, and a Five Star Supplier there every year since 2012.
09 compliments to the waiter
Real hens with our topless waiters
Their photos, their words, typos and all.
Real My Ultimate Hens nights with our topless waiters.
Good morning gorgeous ladies.
I just wanted to say thankyou for all your help all the girls had a fantastic night. Food was awesome. And out topless waiter was so good he was very charming. Thankyou guys again for all your help and support in giving bec the best night ever its so appreciated!
Regards
Molly
Trusted with the bride, the bubbles and the bow tie since 2011.
- Over 10,000Brides have been an Ultimate Hen
- 1,000+My Ultimate Hens celebrations hosted every year
- 4.7on Google
- Easy Weddings 5-Star Supplierawarded every year since 2012
- Our own topless waitersHired and trained in full by us, every one RSA certified
- Share the DignityYou might spot our PAD-y Wagon around town, helping get period products where they're needed
Sydney's first Hen-Tathlon, with 2Day FM
The Jimmy & Nath Show with Emma crashed five My Ultimate Hens parties across Sydney in one day
Female founded in 2011
Started by a woman who knows exactly how good a hens can be, and still hens-obsessed
So much has changed over the years, but what has not changed is the essence of it all: the laughter, the sparkle, the connection, and that iconic moment to stop and celebrate the friendships that raise and define us.
Nyree FOUNDER to news.com.au on My Ultimate's 15th anniversary
10 make it hers
Free topless waiter hens invites and bingo
Type her name, pick a line or write your own, and watch it land on the invite. Then print the bingo and let him referee.
Free extras from us, made for her group chat.
The details, one per line
Tap to add a line, then make it yours
The waiter · tap a style
You're invited to {poss} {line}. {details} Bubbles poured, games on, and one very well-dressed waiter (from the neck up).
A little cheeky bingo
One card each. Tick a square when it happens: the bride stealing his bow tie, mum asking for a photo, someone faking an empty glass. First full row shouts it, and he tops up the winner first.
More rounds for him to run in our topless waiter games.
11 the camera roll
Photos to get with your topless waiter
Six shots, six captions ready to post. The photo will be lovely. The outtake will be better.
01
The first glass
The bride's face the second he hands it over. Get the phone up early.
Service has started and I am not mad about it.
02
The tray
Him, a full tray, and the whole crew reaching for it at once.
Table for one bride and her entire crew, please.
03
The toast
Every glass up, his tray included, the bride in the middle.
Glasses up. Nobody had to fetch them.
04
The bow tie swap
The bride in his bow tie, him looking very slightly underdressed.
She took the bow tie. He let her.
05
The one for the family chat
Mum, the aunties, whoever said they'd only stay for one. They'll ask for one photo. Take nine.
She asked for one photo. This is photo nine.
06
Everyone, you included
The whole crew, him in the middle, and the organiser actually in it.
Organised by me. In the photo for once.
12 the full menu
The whole hens around your topless waiter
He's the bubbles at the start. There's no one way to build the rest, so here are four of the most-loved ways our crews have done it, and her city's packages have plenty more.
- Early eveningOn board, and our topless waiter is on deck with the bubbles as you step on.
- SunsetGames on the water, the city going gold, every glass topped up without anyone leaving the view.
- DinnerOff the boat and straight to a long table, the bride at the head of it.
- LateThe dance floor. She's still talking about the cruise.
A favourite from our Melbourne crews. See Melbourne hens parties.
- ArrivalBubbles from our topless waiter while everyone settles in at the bar.
- The classThe host teaches the shake, he's behind the bar handing them out, and the bride's cocktail somehow always arrives first.
- DinnerShare plates and the speeches, with a glass already in every hand.
- LateA booth and the dance floor for whoever's still standing.
A favourite from our Sydney crews. See Sydney hens parties.
- DoorsYour own room, our topless waiter at the door with a tray, the bride first through it.
- The gamesHe runs them, plays them, and somebody's aunt tries to keep him.
- FoodShare plates on his tray, so nobody leaves the fun to find a waiter.
- LateOut for the night, with the camera roll already full.
A favourite from our Brisbane crews. See Brisbane hens parties.
- The classThe paintings are finished, and the girls are congratulating themselves on a very cultured afternoon.
- DinnerA long table, share plates and the bride's canvas propped up where everyone can admire it.
- The last stopHer girls still have one thing planned. The bow tie arrives with the bubbles.
- LateThe games, the group shot, and someone still defending her brushwork.
A favourite from our crews who paint first. See paint and sip hens parties.
What a My Ultimate Hens night adds
Plenty of groups book a waiter themselves and have a lovely time. A My Ultimate Hens topless waiter puts the whole celebration in one place: him, the venue, the food, the drinks, the next stop and the little surprises for the bride, lined up in an order that works, because we've been building hens since 2011 and we know what makes a night land.
- One place for everything, him included.
- Surprises for her, already in it.
- You in the photos, with every bit of the credit.
14 find a table
Where you can book our topless waiters
Six cities, one bow tie dress code. Pick hers.
Melbourne
Laneway bars, rooftops and the river. Long lunches and cruises are very much its thing. Topless waiter hens in Melbourne
See every Melbourne packageSydney
The harbour does half the work and he does the other half. Topless waiter hens in Sydney
See every Sydney packageBrisbane
Warm nights, private rooms and a river of its own. Brisbane hens parties
See every Brisbane packageGold Coast
Weekend apartments, sunshine and a night out that starts early. Gold Coast hens parties
See every Gold Coast packagePerth
Sunset over the water first, then the city. Perth hens parties
See every Perth packageAdelaide
Long lunches done properly, and a city that takes its wine seriously. Adelaide hens parties
See every Adelaide package
Her city's page shows the packages there right now, each with its own price per person. Or see all hens party packages.
15 asked at every table
Hens party topless waiter questions
The ones the group chat will ask you, answered before they do.
What does a topless waiter do at a hens party?
Our topless waiter joins your group to welcome the bride, serve the drinks and the food in your package, host your hens games and join the photos, so the organiser gets to enjoy the party too. He knows when to start the next game and when to let her best friend finish the story.
Does a topless waiter strip?
No. Our topless waiter keeps the fun up top: bow tie and cuffs on, shirt off, and every hens game and photo the girls can dream up. Want the full show as well? Add one of our strip show hens parties.
What does your topless waiter wear?
A bow tie and cuffs, with the shirt left at home.
Are your topless waiters trained?
Yes, they're our own topless waiters, hired and trained in full as My Ultimate Hens waiters for hens nights: the games, the timing, the photos and keeping the bride at the centre of it all. Every one of them holds his RSA certificate, too.
How much does a topless waiter cost for a hens?
With My Ultimate Hens our topless waiter comes as part of a hens package with the venue, the food and the drinks, so it's one price per person for her whole celebration. It depends on the package and how long you want him there, and every package on her city's page shows its own price.
How long does the topless waiter stay?
As long as you want him, from the welcome bubbles and the games to the whole party.
Do we need more than one topless waiter?
No. One of our topless waiters is plenty for a brilliant hens, and if you'd love a second bow tie in the room, just ask.
Will the bride's mum and the shy friends be comfortable?
Yes. Our waiters are charming before they're cheeky and they read the table: the girls with an answer for everything get the banter, the ones enjoying the commentary get to laugh along, and mum gets a photo she'll actually want to keep.
Can we have a topless waiter at our apartment on a hens weekend?
Yes. On our hens weekends everyone gathers in one central Bachelorette Pad, our own accommodation set up for decorating and celebrating, and it's made for a topless waiter: room for the games, bubbles on ice and the bride in the middle of it all. More on hens weekend packages.
Can we add a topless waiter to a cruise, cocktail class or lunch?
Yes, he fits into a long lunch, a cocktail class, a cruise or a VIP booth.
What games does a topless waiter play?
He hosts the hens games that are all about her: who knows her best, her partner said what, guess the memory, finish the sentence and a fashion challenge or two, so the organiser gets to play too. The full list is in our topless waiter games, and there are more hens party games for the rest of the night.
Can we take photos with our topless waiter?
Yes. Photos are part of his job: the bride with her first glass, the group shot with her girls around her, and the silly one everyone will want framed. He's very happy to jump in, or take the phone so the organiser is in it too.
Which cities do you have topless waiters in?
Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane, the Gold Coast, Perth and Adelaide: topless waiter hens in Melbourne, topless waiter hens in Sydney, Brisbane hens parties, Gold Coast hens parties, Perth hens parties and Adelaide hens parties.
If she'd rather…
- Strip show hens partiesThe full show, for the bride who wants the heat turned all the way up.
- Life drawing hens partiesPencils, a model, and a lot of giggling over the shading.
- Cocktail making hens partiesShake your own, with him behind the bar handing them out.
- Hens party cruisesThe water, the sunset, the whole crew on one deck.
Still deciding? See every idea in hens party ideas.
16 ring the bell
Tell us about her topless waiter hens
Tell us about her, who's coming and the kind of cheeky she loves, and a package consultant comes back with the topless waiter nights that suit her.
Done. Her topless waiter night is with a package consultant now. Keep your phone close.
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